Valentine's Day

I feel like I suddenly have so many things to blog about (just yesterday, I told Matt that I didn't have anything to say...that was clearly a lie) but before I move on I want to give a (small) shout out to Valentine's Day.

We don't typically do a big shebang for V-Day...too commercialized but a small something is always in order to celebrate the love we have for one another (and others too but mostly each other). Last year it had to be a hand made gift and this year we just went with the parameters of "keep it small." I'd say Matt did a splendid job by purchasing a watercolor set for this artist-want-to-be. I can't wait to use it.

For Matt I made a "Library of Love" (I think a lot of the Hacienda ladies went this route thanks to Court's fantastic find...here's the link to make cards of your own)

Here is one example from the cards I made for our card catalogue of life:

I love this idea! I took all of the cards and painted a box I bought at Hobby Lobby. I forgot to take a picture of the final product, but trust me, it looked great!

Hope you all had a Happy Day of Love as well!! (oh and a Happy Transfiguration Sunday too...)

No Wonder Our Dog Is Confused

I imagine the readership of this blog is probably around 85% female, maybe higher. Knowing that demographic, I doubt many of you will find this phenomena strange at all.

Our dog's name is Maggie. Mags, sometimes we call her. Buddy...at times if I'm in a good mood. But the following is a list of what my wife has called our dog (not as adjectives, but as proper noun names) in the past 2 weeks. Knowing something about the laws of probability, and with an estimation of some run-over, this list is no where complete. I imagine the list could triple if the sample size where taken during the course of a year:

Bootlebutt
Doodlebutt
Doodle(s)
Butt
Pooty
Farty
Fart-face
Licky
Sleepy
Snorty
Snorie
Crazy
Munch
Munchy
Munchface
Big eyes
Monster
Alien-dog
Doodle bug
Bug
Baby dog
Burpie
Gassy
Moanie
Whiny
Baby
Pokie
Pushie push
Pushie poot
Snuggles
Snuggle bug
Slobber-face
Fussy
Shaky
Shivers

I think we've got at least 4 of Snow White's 7 dwarfs covered so far.

The Power of Half

A long awaited (and much anticipated) book arrived on my doorstep today.

This is a book written by my dear friend Kevin Salwen (fellow Middle East travler, maybe some day I'll write about that trip..yeah I think I will) and his daughter Hannah about the decision that their family made to sell their large home in Atlanta, buy a smaller one, and give half of that money to charity (I won't spoil all the details!). They embarked on this journey together as a family and this book shares their story of giving back.

I can't wait to dive in...I've been waiting for over a year now!

If you want to know more check out The Power of Half.

(They've also recently appeared on The View and ABC News so maybe you've seen them yourself but either way you should check out their story.)

Also included in today's bookdrop is this gem:

we are using this text in a class I am auditing on Gender and the Hebrew Bible...turns out I really didn't get enough of this in seminary :) Oh and in this same class, I was informed that I am brave for keeping my last name and having a wedding that was not quite so traditional in language and practice...so take that all you nay-sayers out there. I'm brave! (ok maybe not so much but definitely willing to stick up for what I feel is right!)

Maggie Mae

Matt keeps asking me why I haven't introduce ya'll to our best favorite dog Maggie Obama Mae. So, without further ado, here she is:

We have been her proud owners for almost a year and a half.

She's got an incredibly long tongue so watch out for the kisses....

(yes, that is my sister and I in matching pjs at christmas...so what)

And because it's cold outside,

I'll leave you with this snuggly photo of our pooch.

photo credit goes to Matt on this one

Delicious

If you like red velvet cake, like me, (that's probably why you are my friend anyway) then you should check out this clever idea/recipe because it's delicious. very. delicious.
Buy 2 boxes of cake mix (or if you want fewer cookies you can just do it with one) and a tub of cream cheese frosting. And then instead of following the directions on the back, use 2 eggs and 1/3 cup vegetable oil for each box (so if you do 2 boxes that's 4 eggs and 2/3 cup veggie oil...I know, I'm a math whiz). Pre-heat to 325 and mix that all in together...it will make more of a cookie batter consistency...that's what you want.

Then roll the batter into balls (like so), grease the cookie sheet, place the dough on the sheet, smush their little tops down to make some flatter circle shapes, and pop them in the oven for approximately 10 minutes.

Leave them on the cookie sheet for a few minutes to cool and then transfer them to a cooling rack. They will look like these cookies above.

Last but certainly not least, it's time to use the frosting.....Pair up the cookies and cover the middles with frosting to create some tasty sandwich cookies!
I like to call them inverted red velvet cupcakes...just as tasty and 0 messiness.
(sorry no pics of the final product, I was way too excited to eat one and flat out forgot)

And the other good news is that even if you don't like red velvet you can do this with any other cake mix as well.....
My mind is already running wild with thoughts of strawberry cake cookies, german chocolate cake cookies, yellow cake with chocolate frosting cookies

Kids these days

Matt volunteered to read and grade essays by 4th and 5th grade students for a contest in Birmingham City Schools entitled,

"My vision, a world without war, poverty, and injustice."

These kids, many of whom have experienced things in life that I will never begin to understand, said some pretty profound (and funny) things. Here is a small sampling for your Friday afternoon reading pleasure:

-WW I would have never started if someone had yelled, "Let's settle this with our mouths not our fists."

-The world is as dangerous as a bear.

-War is as horrible as tomato soup.

-The poverty people will be given houses and food. They will also be automatically hired for jobs. Also if they live near a donut shop they would receive free donuts.

-Poverty is an ugly word in any language.

This is a work by Banksy...my favorite graffiti artist...used to demonstrate the fact that poverty is often the elephant in the room. I believe this particular showing was part of an exhibit in LA on global poverty and injustice but his works on the Palestinian walls are some of my all time favorites.

In Sickness and In Health

Yep. Those words became very real this weekend.

Sunday we spent most of our day here:

In case you can't tell (which, let's be honest, you can't) that is St. Vincent's Hospital here in B-ham.

When Matt wasn't feeling well on Sunday morning, I had one of those "I really am an adult" moments. It was my decision (well sort of his too but mostly mine) to get him in the car and trek down to the emergency room. It wasn't fun, but I just knew that this pain was coming from the elusive appendix and the only way to resolve it would be to head to the ER (ok I didn't really know but all my internet research seemed to point in that direction).

Turns out I was right (whew...good thing I didn't force him to the hospital for nothing). After a few hours of tests and such they whisked him away for an appendectomy. The crazy thing only took 20 minutes!

Once he was finally out of surgery Matt's family hung around to make sure he was comfortable and I had everything I needed (which I did, thanks to sis going on a scavenger hunt in our townhouse). But then that whole "in sickness and in health" thing came back around and I had another "i really am an adult" moment as his family kissed him goodbye and left for the evening....

It was just me and my (drugged-up) boo in the cozy hospital room for the night (well there were the nurses too but they don't count). And it was in that moment that it hit me that this is what marriage is really all about. It's about making him go to the hospital because he is sick as a dog and then waiting with him and tensing up through the pain and uncertainty. It's about that pit in your stomach that doesn't know what is going to happen next. It's about putting on a white cap and following him into the OR prep and then kissing him goodbye as they wheeled him to surgery. (And more importantly it's about kissing his lips when they bring him back in and let you know that everything is going to be ok.) It's about staying by his side through the night and waking up to make sure he's ok every. single. time. he moved. It's about making sure he has food and medicine and sitting next to him on the couch (some extra time for LOST!) while he recovers. THIS is what marriage and love are all about.

Can't wait til he is fully recovered and back to this silly guy pulling on my hat....oooo and for baseball season too :)